6 Fashion Mistakes Guaranteed to Make You Look 10 Pounds HEAVIER This Summer

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6 Fashion Mistakes That Make You Look Heavier…And What to Do Instead for Summer 2025

As we move through our 40s, 50s, and 60s, our bodies change – and so should our approach to fashion. The right style choices can help you look and feel your best, while the wrong ones can add visual pounds and make you appear shorter or wider than you are. Here are six common fashion mistakes to avoid this summer, plus expert tips to help you look longer, leaner, and more confident at any age.

1. The โ€œSandwich Methodโ€
Outfits that break up your body with horizontal lines-like a dark top, light pants, and dark shoes-can create a blocky silhouette. These visual interruptions make you look shorter and wider by cutting the natural vertical line of your body.

2. Ankle Straps on Shoes
Shoes with ankle straps can visually โ€œcut offโ€ your legs, making them look shorter and wider. This is especially true if the straps are thick, sit high on the ankle, or contrast sharply with your skin tone.

3. Belts That Highlight the Midsection
Belts, especially when worn at or below the natural waist, can draw attention to the belly-an area that often becomes fuller during and after menopause. Rather than minimizing, belts can emphasize the roundness of the midsection.

4. Clothing Thatโ€™s Too Tight
Tight clothes can create bulges and โ€œmuffin tops,โ€ highlighting every curve and making you appear heavier. They also break up your bodyโ€™s natural lines, drawing attention to areas of constriction.

5. Clothing Thatโ€™s Too Loose
On the flip side, overly loose or shapeless garments add bulk and hide your natural curves, making your silhouette appear wider and less defined.

6. Following the Wrong Trends…Like Barrel Jeans
Barrel jeans, with their ballooning shape through the thigh and calf, can widen your lower half and disrupt the vertical line of your legs. This style especially emphasizes fullness if you already have wider hips or thighs.

6 Ways to Look Longer, Leaner, and Slimmer in Summer 2025

1. Match Shoes to Your Skin Tone (or Go Clear)
Nude or skin-tone shoes blend with your legs, creating a seamless line that makes you look taller and slimmer. This trick works wonders with skirts, dresses, or cropped pants where your legs are visible.

A woman wearing a light blue dress demonstrates three different fashion styles: 1) with ankle strap shoes, 2) with shoes that match her skin tone, and 3) adding a third piece to her outfit, while standing against a neutral background.
Chambray Dress + Clark’s Platform Shoes + Scarf + Rattan Handbag
A woman wearing a short, light blue dress with pockets, styled in two different ways: one with white strappy shoes and another holding a straw bag with platform sandals.
Periwinkle Dress + White Block Heels + Clark’s Platform Heels + Rattan Handbag

2. Match Shoes to Pants
Wearing shoes in the same color family as your pants creates an uninterrupted line from hip to toe. This elongates your legs and gives a streamlined, slender appearance.

A woman with long blond hair stands against a white background, wearing a black blouse and light-colored pants, holding a black tote bag.
Black Collared Wrap NO TUCK BLOUSE + Beige Ankle Pants + Beige Wedge Heels + Laptop Tote

3. Choose Pointy Shoes
Pointy-toe shoes visually extend the line of your legs and feet, making you look taller and slimmer. Theyโ€™re especially effective when combined with a low vamp (the part of the shoe covering the top of your foot) and a color that matches your skin or pants.

A woman in a white top and black pants holding a black handbag, standing in front of a white background.
White NO TUCK Top + Black Ankle Pants + Black Block Heels + Black Pointy Toe Kitten Heels + Black Satchel

4. Embrace Column Dressing
Wearing a single color or tonal palette from head to toe-known as column dressing-creates a long, vertical line that elongates your body. Add interest with layers or accessories in similar tones to maintain the slimming effect.

A woman standing against a white backdrop, wearing a light pink cardigan over a white top and white pants, holding a light handbag, and smiling.
Mauve Duster + White Tank + White Ankle Pants + Clear Block Heels + White Satchel (Similar) + Scarf + Starfish Necklace

5. Go Monochrome
Monochrome outfits (all one color, especially darker shades) draw the eye up and down, not side to side. Structured, semi-fitted pieces in a single color help maintain clean lines and a sleek silhouette.

A smiling woman with long blonde hair stands confidently in a loose-fitting white jumpsuit, holding a metallic clutch, against a light-colored background.
My Dinner Outfit for the Google YouTube event in NYC!
Ivory Pleated Bubble Top + Ivory Palazzo Pants + Clear Heels + Vintage Clutch (Poshmark1 – Poshmark2)
A woman wearing a light beige suit stands against a white background. She holds a beige handbag and is barefoot, smiling confidently.
Beige Blazer (runs a size small) + Beige Crop Sweater (SIZE UP!) + Beige Ankle Pants + Gold Kitten Wedge Heels + Beige Fan Handbag

6. Opt for V-Necks
V-neck tops create a vertical line along your torso, elongating your neck and upper body. This neckline flatters most figures, highlights the collarbone, and balances proportions – especially useful if you have a larger bust. WATCH THE YOUTUBE VIDEO FOR A FULL EXPLANATION OF THIS PRINCIPLE!

A woman standing in front of a white background, wearing a pink top and a white skirt, holding a white handbag.
Orchid Pink V-Neck NO TUCK TOP + White Eyelet Skirt + Metallic Slide Sandals + White Satchel (Similar)

BONUS – Pull Your Hair Up
High ponytails, buns, or updos add height at the crown and expose your neck, making your face and body look longer and leaner. This simple trick also highlights your jawline and slims the face.

A woman is posing in three different dresses: a blue striped dress on the left, a pink off-the-shoulder dress in the center, and a white dress on the right. The background features a beach and palm trees.
A person wearing a light blue suit stands confidently in a modern event space with bright lighting and a colorful backdrop.
Totally Off Topic…but this was my outfit for the YouTube Summer House Fashion Event for Creators in NYC
White Crepe Belted Blazer + White Crepe Wide Leg Pants + Clear Heels + White Tank

Final Thoughts

Fashion after 40, 50, or 60 is about celebrating your body and choosing styles that help you look and feel your best. By avoiding these common mistakes and embracing elongating, slimming strategies, you can enjoy a more confident, flattering summer wardrobe-no matter your age.

Happy Styling!

Valarie



I am 5โ€™0 with a 26โ€ inseam and generally wear size 2P. All items fit TTS (true to size) unless otherwise stated.

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29 thoughts on “6 Fashion Mistakes Guaranteed to Make You Look 10 Pounds HEAVIER This Summer

  1. Thank you for your wonderful advice regarding the probiotics! Will definitely be having a conversation with my PCP and NP about this…also love the fashion tips and tricks!

    1. I bought them just to give them a try. It was a definite no thank you for me to something that makes my thighs look bigger than they already are!

  2. you looked lovely in the light blue outfit at the utube event. thanks for your emails/videos!!

    1. The outfit is linked beneath the photo – click on the link for purchase info. It only comes in white. And thank you!

  3. Favourite summer holiday was hiking in mountains in BC Canada! It was good for the soul and my fitness! Thanks for good fashion advice, Iโ€™m 5โ€™1โ€ and struggle with styles,

  4. I love this! I am getting rid of the donโ€™ts and adding more dos. I want some beige wedges, but the link doesnโ€™t work. Any suggestions?

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