Simplify Your Winter Style

One of the things I hear from you ladies over and over again is that you want to look stylish without looking like you are “trying too hard”. And I get it. I hear you.

I mean, I REALLY HEAR YOU. Your words are stuck in my head when I scroll through social media. I will see an outfit from another influencer and think, “She’s trying too hard with this outfit…Oh she is trying WAY TOO HARD with this look…” 😂

As midlife women, we often find ourselves torn between wanting to stay youthful and stylish while avoiding the pitfall of appearing like we’re trying too hard. The key lies in embracing effortless style and simplifying our wardrobes with neutral colors. By doing so, we can exude an air of confidence, sophistication, and timeless elegance that transcends fleeting trends. So, let’s explore how you can effortlessly refine your style and create a wardrobe that speaks volumes without saying a word.

Effortless style is all about looking put-together without appearing like you’ve tried too hard. It’s about embracing your unique personality and dressing in a way that feels natural and comfortable to you. Here are some tips to help you achieve effortless style:

Effortless style is all about looking put-together without appearing like you’ve tried too hard.

– Valarie

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Amazon Beige Coatigan + Ivory Cardigan + Layering Tank + Jeans (cut to custom length) + UGG Boots + Beige Handbag

1. Know Your Body:

Understanding your body shape and what flatters it the most is essential for effortless style. Dress in clothes that highlight your best features and make you feel confident. Embrace your curves, accentuate your waist, or go for a relaxed fit if that’s what makes you feel comfortable.

Sherpa Lady Jacket + Black Soft Pants (run half size small) + Cap Toe Ballet Flats + Beige Handbag

2. Stick to a Color Palette:

Having a color palette that suits you well can simplify your wardrobe and make it easier to mix and match. Neutral colors like black, white, gray, beige, and navy are timeless and versatile. They create a cohesive look and allow you to effortlessly build outfits without much thought. Add pops of color through accessories or statement pieces to keep your style interesting.

Beige Cashmere Cardigan + Layering Tank + Pintucked Crop Pants + Cap Toe Ballet Flats

3. Invest in Quality Basics:

Building a wardrobe with high-quality basics is the foundation of effortless style. These timeless pieces will last longer and withstand changing fashion trends. Invest in items like a well-fitting pair of jeans, a classic white button-down shirt, a tailored blazer, a little black dress, and comfortable black or nude heels. These staples can be dressed up or down for various occasions.

Amazon Striped Cardigan + Black Soft Pants (run half size small) + Mary Jane Ballet Flats + Black Bag

4. Embrace Minimalism:

Simplicity is key to effortless style. Avoid cluttering your outfits with too many accessories or excessive patterns. Opt for clean lines and minimalistic jewelry to keep your look chic and polished. Remember, less is more. Choose one statement piece or focal point and let it shine.

Beige Cableknit Sweater + Layering Tank + Jeans (cut off to custom length) + Mary Jane Ballet Flats

5. Dress for the Occasion:

Effortless style doesn’t mean dressing casually all the time. It’s about adapting your style to different occasions while maintaining your personal touch. Dress appropriately for the event or setting while staying true to your style. A well-tailored dress or a tailored pantsuit can exude elegance and effortlessness, while a stylish pair of jeans and a blouse can be perfect for a casual outing.

Amazon Boatneck Sweater + Black Soft Pants (run half size small) + Mary Jane Ballet Flats + Black Bag

6. Confidence is Key:

No matter what you wear, confidence is the ultimate accessory. Embrace your unique style, own it, and carry yourself with poise. When you feel comfortable and confident in your clothes, it radiates effortless style and makes a lasting impression.

In sum, effortless style is about simplifying your wardrobe, embracing timeless pieces, and dressing in a way that reflects your personality. We are going to work together to pair down and rebuild your wardrobe AND your style, starting with what is already in your closet and working up from there. Let’s simplify your style TOGETHER!

Ivory Side Button Sweater + Jeans (cut to custom length) + UGG Boots + Beige Handbag
Beige Cableknit Sweater + Layering Tank + Black Soft Pants (run half size small) + Mary Jane Ballet Flats

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